The Boy’s Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up YOU (Boys World Books)
by Kelli Dunham and Steven Bjorkman
PUBERTY. It’s a rare parent who can utter that word aloud without shuddering, or at least squirming a little. Eventually, though, we all find ourselves face to face with people who resemble our sweet children, but who seem to have been taken over by cranky aliens.
I have found myself in just such a situation lately with my second son, age 10 1/2. It’s not full-blown puberty yet, but it’s a-comin’; oh, the mood swings! The tantrums! The storming off! And while I pride myself on being able to have frank conversations with my kids about most things under the sun, sometimes it helps to have a book at one’s disposal to get the conversation started, or to further the conversation.
I actually stumbled across this book on Amazon while I was searching for something of a similar nature geared towards girls, because my twins aren’t far behind. I’m really glad I found this book for boys. It covers all the important stuff – stuff, I’m pretty sure, that is covered in what used to be the Fifth Grade Growth and Development Film shown at school, but which is now, apparently the Sixth Grade Growth and Development Film (probably a year too late, since by sixth grade, most boys are knee-deep in a lot of these changes already) in our school district. It covers everything from body odor to body hair to peer pressure, to feelings – all in straightforward, down-to-earth language.
I read it cover to cover in about an hour, and will be leaving it in my son’s room for him to read at his leisure. I’m hopeful that it will ease his mind about what he’s experiencing, and provide a springboard for further conversation between him and me, him and his dad, or even him and his older brother.